Comments on A Lover's Journal: Lover no more

Hi there, One of the nices blogs I have ever read....

2011-11-09T13:12:10.413-07:00

Hi there, One of the nices blogs I have ever read. Its a shame you stopped writing. I hope things are going well with you. Feel free to talk to me if you need a friend.

Did you start another blog somewhere else? I rece...

2011-05-29T22:12:45.834-07:00

Did you start another blog somewhere else? I recently found this and have spent many hours reading...and I to am sorry I am too late...your words are powerful and insightful

please don't go away...just read this part..an...

2011-04-20T19:12:01.825-07:00

please don't go away...just read this part..and im upset...you'll be a great help with your ideas and advices...please write more... -Trisha

I have to agree with Aja! 5 years too late... I...

2011-04-04T20:46:27.918-07:00

I have to agree with Aja! 5 years too late... I'm going through a very confusing time with an Indian guy sending majorly mixed signals that I cannot begin to interpret... From your final blog it seemed like you got your heart broken. I'm sorry to hear that. I've been reading your blog for the past few days and have noticed much passion! Loved all of it!

Vanessa

I am 5 years too late, but I have been reading the...

2011-01-21T16:55:44.279-07:00

I am 5 years too late, but I have been reading the past couple of days and I love everything that I read!!
Love,
A to the J

LL, I see it has been some time since any comment...

2010-07-14T09:36:30.922-07:00

LL,

I see it has been some time since any comment was posted here. How are you holding up? I hope that you have taken the time you needed to heal and reignite the passionate lover's flame that glows within your heart. Your posts were always well thought, well written, and spoke deeply to many of your readers. Have you a new blog somewhere?

Sharing the joy from my heart to yours,
Noelle

Sitaram, I will continue to maintain the Hindu Ca...

2009-12-05T18:17:46.876-07:00

Sitaram,

I will continue to maintain the Hindu Calendar.

Thanks for checking.

LL

I hope you will keep the Hindu calendar alive. Tha...

2009-11-26T14:39:25.736-07:00

I hope you will keep the Hindu calendar alive.
Thank you, take care.

Sharrell said: I just starting reading your blogs ...

2009-10-28T13:42:30.827-07:00

Sharrell said:
I just starting reading your blogs and am sad to know find out you have stop posting them. I found yur blogs insightful and educating. I do hope you will write again in the near future. By the way I was interested in knowing more about an actor named Naveen Andrews. I was hoping to learn more about his culture, being that he was raised in South London though being Indian.

Thanks for sharing some new information here. I li...

2009-10-26T02:57:19.508-07:00

Thanks for sharing some new information here. I like this site and it is very informative and hence people who will come across this site will gain lot of information about it. I am very to being glad to be part of this site! I will visit this site in future too.

We love your blog b/c those of us new to Indian wa...

2009-08-24T08:18:19.927-07:00

We love your blog b/c those of us new to Indian ways, culture, food and lifestyles learn so much!

Please think about this decision. Your blog is in...

2009-08-08T01:44:12.669-07:00

Please think about this decision. Your blog is interesting and helpful, especially for those of us non-Indian ladies interested in creating lasting relationships/marriages with Indian men.

LP

shall wait... Ardra

2009-07-16T05:30:02.029-07:00

shall wait...
Ardra

Good Luck ! really enjoyed your blogs since long t...

2009-06-25T07:43:04.355-07:00

Good Luck ! really enjoyed your blogs since long time ...well nothing lasts forever...

LL, Take a breather and refresh your soul. F...

2009-06-23T07:47:03.355-07:00

LL,
Take a breather and refresh your soul. Find your peace. Life can be bitter at times, lonely at other times.

Get yourself a pet - maybe a puppy or kitten if you feel up to it? Might give you some joy and some much-needed laughs.

Priya.

M, You don't know anonymous, any more than an...

2009-06-11T22:09:36.089-07:00

M,

You don't know anonymous, any more than anonymous knows you. For an unfamiliar person, parts of your earlier comment might sound like I was being asked to blog again so that I wouldn't let down my readers' expectations. Similarly, Anonymous's comment also seemed to misread your intentions.

Anonymous was just watching out for me and saying that I should do what's best for me and not worry about others' expectations. S/he wished well for me just as you did.

Let's not jump to assumptions about people whom we don't know and draw conclusions about their motivations. It's nice to have people who care enough to comment. But it's not good if that leads to bad feelings and unkind words. Let's please avoid that and move on.

LL

My posting was not meant in any negative sort of w...

2009-06-11T20:09:20.068-07:00

My posting was not meant in any negative sort of way. How dare anyone be so rude to me when there are postings like "Badfish". Yes I am trying to get him to snap out of it! We all go through phases but life always moves on!

"Me" I bet I know LL a lot more than you do. He obviously understood my intentions... I don't think it was any of your business to disrespect my comment. He is my friend, and friends try to pick eachother up not encourage them to suffer. When he is hurting, I am hurting. I'm sorry you can't see that and think I'm selfish. I'm quite the opposite, I rarely ever think of myself... what a slap in the face. I think your comment was rude and selfish, because yes... you don't know what I've gone through... and you don't know what LL has gone through. You are completely insensitive and obviously not helping the situation. So my comment was personal, unlike yours. Thanks!

Anonymous (Me), I think M was just trying to make...

2009-06-11T19:45:57.521-07:00

Anonymous (Me),

I think M was just trying to make me, or rather my writings, feel wanted. S/he intended well and I think is trying to make me "snap out of it". But thanks for speaking up for me. Appreciate it. :-)

LL

Bad Fish, Thanks for stopping by and taking time ...

2009-06-11T19:42:33.022-07:00

Bad Fish,

Thanks for stopping by and taking time to comment. While you are here, please relax and explore around my blog. Wouldn't want you to bust a blood vessel over my words! :-)

LL

PS: Love the Northwest and the people from the Northwest.

everyone, Thanks for the kind comments. I can'...

2009-06-11T19:40:40.477-07:00

everyone,

Thanks for the kind comments. I can't stop writing. So, yes, there will be something published some place - not sure when and where. If you want to be notified when that happens, send me your email address.

LL

to M_ above, what a selfish comment. LL has to fe...

2009-06-11T07:39:52.140-07:00

to M_ above,

what a selfish comment. LL has to feed the emotional void of yours and the likes of yours. What kind of a reason are you offering him to not discontinue his blog. Very strange.

I am sorry for the turmoil you went through in your life but your comment is just weird.

LL,

pay no attention to M_ above. You have to do what makes you happy. You dont have to put up with anything that drains your energy , esp for the sake of those that are looking to drain it away.

-Me

Everyone goes through times that we do not feel ou...

2009-06-11T01:17:49.664-07:00

Everyone goes through times that we do not feel ourselves. We hit empty spots of life that leave us wondering. It's how we keep composed and sane that builds our character. Running away is a weaker way to deal with things. There are obviously many many people that read your blog and enjoy it. So you quitting your blog is not just effecting you, but many others. You know what it's like to have others run away from you or give up on you... you really think giving off that same negative energy will bring you anything good?

I connected with your blog... with you. You have incredible amounts of passion, and still do. You are becoming blind to it, it's not that you are not that anymore. I hope you can realize a higher route to take than this path you're choosing. I hope you can find some strength and make a statement to your readers how important it is to never give up. I've gone through the worst time of my life recently. I had a friend tell me... you have to just take a deep breath, close your eyes, and know that you're still alive. You have life in you, and that my friend is the greatest gift.... that is all that matters. Don't lose focus. My thoughts and heart are with you.

Your blogs are wonderful to read, I think you will...

2009-06-10T18:34:41.989-07:00

Your blogs are wonderful to read, I think you will miss blogging in a while if you do really quit. I understand your need to stop blogging about love, women and desires, and I really think if you are running away from it you should quit blogging on this site, but as someone else suggested you should start a new blog of your own to move on and let the hurt of the previous one behind.

That's my honest opinion, you have to ultimately do what you think and feel is right for you.

All the very best as you move on, if you do start a new blog, do keep us posted.

I have to agree, your blog and writings are some ...

2009-06-09T19:27:20.166-07:00

I have to agree, your blog and writings are some of my favs! And I hardly enjoy blog surfing most of the time.

Don't pay any attention to Bad Fish. We all know those types and we can all laugh at them. Sad people they are!

You have a good and honest voice. The decision is ultimately yours though. Perhaps you can start a new blog. Fresh new layout, title, what have you. Buy a domain name, take advantage of wordpress, and even make some money through ads and such while your at it. I think it's possible for you to have a following. (well it seems you already do)

Sometimes we all just need to take a break. So take yours and see if you're drawn to come back!

Oh and don't give up on love! It's the meaning to life. ~W

I hope that you change your mind I love your blogs...

2009-06-09T15:07:23.468-07:00

I hope that you change your mind I love your blogs, even if you don't blog about love I'm sure their are other things you can share with us, I'm saddened because I RELATE to your blogs